The relationship vs. communication and perspective

看问题的角度 perspective  如果出现了分歧和裂痕,首先是要沟通:从各自的角度出发,推演出你现在为什么会这样做?把这个分享给对方,如果对方有同理心的话,就能够理解你为什么这样做,解决了之间的分歧,这是第1步;如果还解决不了,也就是对方不能认可你的角度,那就各谈各的,在这个世界上有些东西是不能达到共识的,这也是没办法的事情。但是一般的情况,大家还是有同理心的,第1步就可以解决了,就可以解除隔阂了,不会走到第2步。  

See how the spiritual teacher heals the relationship of a wife and husband by revealing each others' perspective; both have the right reason from their own angle. 他们对自己的行为有自己的逻辑。从他们自己的角度来看,没有一个是错的。你听一个说,会觉得这是绝对正确的。现在我们所要做的就是向他们展示各自的观点,他们会发现的。



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Dear BK,
Thank you for the English version of your talk show from you on YouTube. It is a great idea to divide the whole long video to short ones with the distinct hot topics; nowadays most people are crowded by internet and it Is more likely to welcome people to pay a click if the talk show is from their perspectives.
Your talk shows in English is great work and very helpful, Benefit more scope of people on the globe. Thank you.
With God Love,